Bahar: My granddaughter is 22, she's about to graduate from college with her Master's degree.
Me: Wow! You don't look old enough to have a granddaughter that age!
Bahar: Thank you! I'm 57. I got married young. My mother gave me away when I was 13.
Me: Weren't you scared? Had you met your husband before you married? How old was he?
Bahar: Yes, of course I was scared. I was very scared! We'd never met before. His mother saw me and asked my mother for me, and then we got married. He was 22.
Me: How old were you when you had your first baby?
Bahar: I was 14. I was still a child myself. I liked to play with my daughter's dolls! We grew up together.
When I am 35, I will have a 7 year old, a 5 year old, and a 3 year old. When Bahar was 35, she was a grandma!